Thread: My boyfriend takes too long to come! - Womens-Health.com

If he couldn't cum at all ever then it's likely retarded ejaculation, since he can finish himself off it cannot be that.

Look on the bright side, most males in his circumstances ejaculate virtually instantly, leaving their partner just as frustrated, but having only had less than one minute of sex. You get the frustration a man's first sexual partner usually has, but you get hours' of sex too, it could be worse.

Just like women, a man not climaxing from sex doesn't mean she didn't enjoy it.

I would also x2 the advice of him abstaining from masturbating, this should make a big difference, if he's a young healthy guy ejaculating 3-4 times daily every day may well not be a problem for him, if he refrains from masturbating the 'build up' should shorten his performance.

Also, try cranking up the noises you make, those wonderful melodious purring sounds women make when they're enjoying themselves; also, if he like you talking to him work that too. Gauge his response to you and as you see him becoming excited continue doing whatever it is your doing that he likes (but don't overdo it, although many men LOVE the exaggerated theatrical moaning in porn. You know him so tailor it to his needs) and crank it up a level or two. Once you're doing this you need to remain in control of him and maintain the pace you're having sex at (easiest with you on top probably) at least slightly faster than he would if he were doing it. Then just keep going, not giving him a chance to recompose or regain control of himself, until he literally explodes. Remember the signs of a man about to cum are groaning/panting/shortness of breath and increased swelling of the penis, look out for these and they'll assist you.

I'd say if anything were going to do it, I'd say this will, especially on top of the new no masturbating policy.

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